feat: LLM entity + fact extraction pipeline (Zep paper alignment) (#48)

## Changes

### Entity Extraction
- Switch from WikiLinkFallbackExtractor to LlmEntityExtractor when LLM_ENDPOINT set
- `clean_llm_response()`: strips `<think>` tags, markdown fences, extracts JSON
- Handle array responses (Ollama returns `[...]` not `{entities: [...]}`)
- EntityType custom Deserialize: unknown variants → Unknown (no crash)
- Increase timeout 30s→90s, max_tokens 500→1500 for reasoning models
- Graceful reflection fallback: keep entities if verification fails

### Fact Extraction (NEW)
- LlmFactExtractor: LLM-based relationship extraction between entity pairs
- Validates source/target against known entity list (drops hallucinated edges)
- Same robust JSON cleaning for reasoning models + Ollama
- IngestWorker auto-selects LLM vs Simple based on LLM_ENDPOINT env

### K8s Deployment
- Add `command: ["/app/mem"]` (fix args replacing CMD)
- Add LLM_ENDPOINT, LLM_MODEL env vars for in-cluster LLM

## E2E Tested (local Ollama qwen2.5:3b)
- 12 entities extracted (person, tool, concept, organization)
- 5 edges with relationships and facts
- 781 tests pass

## Zep Paper Alignment (§2.2)
- Entity extraction + resolution (§2.2.1)
- Fact extraction between entity pairs (§2.2.2)
- Temporal edge invalidation ready (t_valid/t_invalid schema)
- Reflection verification (§2.2.1, graceful fallback)

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Co-authored-by: rock <[email protected]>
Reviewed-on: #48
Co-authored-by: poimen <[email protected]>

crates/mem-cli/src/cache_alignment.rs

@@ -224,9 +224,20 @@ impl KvCacheAligner {
 
     /// Pre-load hot chunks into cache
     pub fn preload_hot_chunks(&self, hot_chunks: Vec<(&str, &str)>) -> Result<()> {
+        let count = hot_chunks.len();
         for (chunk_id, text) in hot_chunks {
             self.cache.put(chunk_id, text);
         }
+        let metrics = self.cache.metrics();
+        tracing::info!(
+            target: "observability",
+            event = "cache_preload",
+            preloaded = count,
+            cache_hits = metrics.hits,
+            cache_misses = metrics.misses,
+            hit_ratio = format!("{:.2}", metrics.hit_ratio()),
+            "Cache preload complete"
+        );
         Ok(())
     }