feat(gotify): add push notification server + SMTP email relay

- Gotify server (ghcr.io/gotify/server:2.6.1) in notifications namespace
- SMTP emailer sidecar polls messages, forwards as email via msmtp
- Ingress at gotify.riotpiao.com with WebSocket support
- 1Gi Longhorn PVC for message persistence
- ArgoCD Application (wave 8, auto-sync)
- Secrets template for admin creds, SMTP config, tokens
- README with setup guide: tokens, Forgejo webhooks, SMTP providers

Enables PR created/merged email notifications from Forgejo.

k8s/apps/gotify/kustomization.yaml

@@ -0,0 +1,9 @@
+apiVersion: kustomize.config.k8s.io/v1beta1
+kind: Kustomization
+resources:
+  - namespace.yaml
+  - pvc.yaml
+  - secrets.yaml
+  - deployment.yaml
+  - service.yaml
+  - ingress.yaml